Cities we date

Have you ever noticed 

That the cities we live in are kind of people we date??

Let me explain it to you..

See our hometown is our mother

Jab hum chote hote he

To Hume har chiz milti he 

Mummy jese Hume har chiz provide krti he wese waha har kuch Hume milta he,,

Log Hume jante he 

If something happens to us 

People knw us 

They can help up..

And we tend to like our hometown

It's our comfort zone..

And we don't have any other option(like our mother)

But as we grow 

Around 15-17 

Like our mom annoys us

She keeps constant watch

We can not do anything new ..

Wese hi hamara hometown he

Hum kuch Nhi kr skte

Kyu

 kyu ki log Hume jante he..

If we wanna try smoking Aur Wo pan ka tapri par cigarette lene Gaye.

You-

"Bhaiya Ek gold flake Dena..

 

Piche se awaj aati he-

Are tu to trivedi ji ka ladka he na?

You -"are bhaiya golden supari bola tha aap Ye Kya de rhe ho.."

..

Making a gf / bf is challenge

Those blank calls

And waiting ...

But when you leave your hometown ...

Like in my case

I came to indore for my engineering..

So the city from where you graduate becomes your 1st love..

Aur jese ki har pyar ki shuruat hoti he crushhhhh se

Jese jab apko crush hota he

To Nind ud jati he

Unnki yaad aati

You try to get there attention

You do stupid stuff

You cry

You think you can't live without them

Same aapko naye sheher aa kr lgta he

.. You miss your hometown

You Miss your mom

You can't sleep

You cry

You do stupid stuff..

But as time goes by

You get to knw your crush and your crush get to knw you

You start liking that feeling..

This is the second stage..

You start to like this new place

You get to knw about different places you make new friends

People knw you by your name

Not by your parent's name..

And 

Like 

The money we get from our parents

We save it for some pleasures

We ask for more money by making excuses-like mummy course ki book kharidni he

And we spent it on Daru and cigarette..

Like

 jab pehla pyar hua tha to

.. Mummy jo hafte k 10rs pocket money deti thi usse bhi bacha bacha kr

Hum huamare crush ko gol gappe khilate the.. Aur hum sukhi papdi kha kr khush ho jate the..

Huamare liye Wahi date hoti thi ...

And finally we fall in love with this city

And this city loves us back

Like our 1st gf

And we make promises to never leave each other and stay loyal to each other 

Par jese har story ka happy ending Nhi hota 

Wese hi humara graduation ho jata he Aur kismet se job bhi lg jati he..

Kuch kismet wale hote he jo usi sheher me kaam krte he

Ya pehli gf se shadi kr lete he

Aur kuch 

Dusre type k hote he

Jinhe dusre sheher me job lag jati he

In other case

Koi dusri madam

 bhav dene lg jati he..

Then comes the breakup..

Toda rona dhona

Todi yade lekar 

Hum alag hote he..

And finally we move on

To new city or with new partner and we are happy with new life but 

Par fir bhi dil me ek jagah rehti he

Ki kab chance mile Aur hum fir se Ek ho jaye..