Sadist vs masochist

Sadist vs masochist 


Are we bunch of sadists and masochists-

Today if u look at any part of world ,
Most of the times u come across these kind of humans
Some are sadists and some are masochists
A sadist is a person who gets pleasure by inflicting pain on others
Actually our whole history is filled with a large no. Of sadists
Though each of them have provided there different reasons to inflict pain on others
But on the whole , the point is same -to inflict the pain
Every sadist have one thing common , they all follow a definite pattern
They stick to there delusional believes 
Overall our world history we saw sadists in different acts
Some get there pleasure by
Genocide 
Some become serial killer
Few become Dictator 

These are few example of sadists which are commonly known and can be distinguished from common population
But what about those sadists
Which we see in our daily lives 
,we meet them, greet
Them but totally unaware of them being a sadist  

Think hard ,
I think at least one face will come to your mind 
And can say that he/she is sadist
Or just a bad person

Almost every day we come across, or at least listen about the wrong doings of these people

Now
What I think that there sadist nature may be of different kind 
And the magnitude of there urge to cause pain 

It is a kind of disorder 
Known as spd
Sadistic personality disorder
A person can involve in sadistic acts from there childhood 
Those acts may not seem very alarming
Because a lot of normal kids indulge in such acts
Like hitting a dog with stone 

Most of the kids may do it cuz of fear 
But sadistic kind
Do it just for sheer enjoyment 

The act of sadism may start from hitting dog or killing a squirrel
But some may take it to a next level

That is bullying
Now the mental state of a sadist may be because of conditions at there home or may be because of any child abuse

But that mental state leads to these sadistic acts and which may become a lifestyle 

We come across many cases of bullying, ragging
In past few years
Cases of juvenile crimes are increasing with a alarming rate
The crimes are so in-humane
Which can easily question innocence of a child 

Few decades back the percentage of juvenile crimes was low
And was limited to only few kind of crimes
Which he/she committed in need of food , to protect themselves or just to fulfill basic needs

But nowadays crimes committed have a great percentage of sadistic nature
A lot of cases are of infant rape.
So many cases around the world has been reported in which a teenage kid raped a infant
There are so many cases of murders 
The reason for murder is sadistic
The lust for blood
The rush of feelings when they see there victim asking for help
And the list goes on and on
And we have seen in history
This kids have grown up to become most notorious serial killers world has ever seen

Sadism can be of different type
-
The urge to hurt some one can be because of many reason
Sexual pleasure
Adrenaline rush
Feeling when there victim is helpless
Lust for blood
Thirst for blood
And the list goes on

In above mentioned reason
Sadism in sexual pleasure
Is very common
Actually upto some extent this is considered under normal sexual behaviors
There are different fetish related to sadism
Like
Hitting , to tie , to choke
There sexual partner
Just for sake of pleasure 
But some of them are just horrific acts
Like necrophilia and cannibalism
There are many cases in history and in recent past that us humans can be  nothing less than humans

Many of the serial killers or failed lovers
Kidnapped there victims killed them slowly by torturing
And once they are dead then indulging in sexual acts with them
And eating there body parts after that.

That not the end 
The sadism has found its way in our world as a job also.
Many makes it as a career 
Like a assassin 
Or in few cases they tend to become sadist after choosing a particular career like an interrogator .


This world of ours is filled with sadist but there is one kind of people those are just opposite to a sadist
Those are masochist


Masochist is a kind of person who likes pain 
Humiliation and distress.
Actually like sadist,masochist is also a medical condition
It is known as self defeating personality disorder


In this pervasive pattern of self-defeating behavior, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts. The person may often avoid or undermine pleasurable experiences, be drawn to situations or relationships in which they will suffer, and prevent others from helping them, as indicated by at least five of the following:
chooses people and situations that lead to disappointment, failure, or mistreatment even when better options are clearly available
rejects or renders ineffective the attempts of others to help them
following positive personal events (e.g., new achievement), responds with depression, guilt, or a behavior that produces pain (e.g., an accident)
incites angry or rejecting responses from others and then feels hurt, defeated, or humiliated (e.g., makes fun of spouse in public, provoking an angry retort, then feels devastated)
rejects opportunities for pleasure, or is reluctant to acknowledge enjoying themself (despite having adequate social skills and the capacity for pleasure)
fails to accomplish tasks crucial to their personal objectives despite demonstrated ability to do so, e.g., helps fellow students write papers, but is unable to write their own
is uninterested in or rejects people who consistently treat them well, e.g., is unattracted to caring sexual partners
engages in excessive self-sacrifice that is unsolicited by the intended recipients of the sacrifice
B) The behaviors in a masochist do not occur exclusively in response to, or in anticipation of, being physically, sexually, or psychologically abused.


Political masochism is also a thing 
People are resilient towards there government 
They are supposed to trust them
But getting oppressed by them and not doing anything is also a kind of masochism
At start the oppression of rights seem Unfair but with passing time this becomes normal and part of there lifestyle
Time makes people more and more tolerant


The masochist can be of different type
Some can be considered as saints those wo sacrifice themselves for others

Some can be possessive kind

But the number of people having sadist or masochist tendency are increasing due to the aggressive lifestyle of humans

When sexual sadism and sexual masochism gets mixed up
That leads to sadomasochism 
Relation
When one partner gets pleasure and sexual arousal by hitting his/her partner and other get aroused by getting hit
Which is part of BDSM

So after looking all this types of people we need to ask ourself where is our generation heading ?

Irctc friend-zoned me😐

Similarities between a  relationship of me  in friend zone with my crush

And me with irctc 

1-it takes 2-3 three times to login properly 

-it takes 2-3 phone  calls or msgs to get her attention 

2-whenever I open irctc my heart is filled with emotions but what I get is an error msg and cold look

-whenever I talk to her ;I am thinking 

Pandit barat and honeymoon

But what I get is error msg and cold look 

3-whenever I try for Tatkal it's like ten minutes after accident ..those are crucial as heck 

But still what I get ?

I get thrown out of site and if by sheer luck I get till payment section

What I get is a freaking waiting ticket which gets my hopes up.

Which eventually gets cancelled 

And I don't even get a complete refund 

-whenever I need my crush the most

She in unavailable ,

Heavily loaded with work or straight ignores me.

I try and try but always get rejected

But sometimes by sheer luck I get a date. She keeps me waiting and eventually cancels 

4-irctc is in best behaviour when there are exam times (feb -March)

Those are the times when I get easy response and I can easily book ticket.

-my crush always replies and ask for my help when it's her exam. Because everyone else is bussy in there exams

5-though i have 40% luck with irctc . I still don't have any option.because of bookings on irctc I have  wonderful memories. We are in love hate relationship

-though Iam completely friend zoned but still I like my crush. I had some awesome moments

And we r also in love hate relationship

I love her and she hates me

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